Traveling with an allergic kid can be really tough. Especially when you factor in eating at restaurants and staying in hotels. Charlie, my youngest, has severe dairy and soy allergies. Although her reactions are not anaphylactic, she has ended up being admitted to the hospital on two separate trips.
Over the past 6 years, I have learned a lot about how to keep your allergic kid safe when traveling. Here are my tips.
At this point, I have learned that planning ahead is my best bet. I don’t leave the house now without a backup lunch for Charlie packed in a small lunchbox. This applies whether we are headed to a movie, the mall or even just out for more than a few hours. I keep 4 ice packs in the freezer so one is always ready to go.
When heading out on long road trips, I pack Charlie an entire cooler full of foods she has tried at home and I know she will not react to. I recommend the Coleman Powerchill Cooler. To keep cool, it plugs into the cigarette lighter in the car. You can also pick up an attachment that allows you to plug it into any traditional plug in the car or hotel room. This has saved me an exponential amount of money as I no longer have to worry about spoiled food and we are eating out much less on the road.
Carry An Allergy Card
Due to the fact that soy and dairy seem to sneak their way into plenty of menu items, I’ve found the easiest way to explain the allergy at a restaurant is to present an allergy card. The site I use for free allergy cards is kidswithfoodallergies.org which is a division of the Asthma and Allergy Foundation of America. Just click on your child’s allergen and you will be able to quickly print ready-made allergy cards to carry with you. I also hand these out to our sitters and leave a larger print out our kitchen for quick reference at home.
The first thing that you can do for your child is to have them tested for any other allergies that might lead to pulmonary or respiratory problems in the near future. A reputed healthcare institute (such as Gwinnett Lung) specializing in such issues could help you in this regard. Moreover, if your child has an allergy, you could install an air purifier in your car that can remove pollution from the air, which can actually help keep your baby healthier. It may ensure that there is no lingering odor of cigarettes or alcohol, which could make them anxious. Particulates in the air are mostly removed by air purifiers. These cleaning devices help to alleviate allergic symptoms and improve sleep. Such equipment is well worth its price, especially for babies with allergies.
When we do venture into restaurants, I ask a lot of questions. I’ve learned from watching other allergy parents and speaking to servers and managers that this is okay. I’ve come to the conclusion that I would rather take up a little more time ensuring Charlie is safe than have her go through another allergic episode. If a server seems disinterested or you have a feeling that the situation won’t be handled carefully, ask for a manager or simply leave. There are plenty of restaurants that will happily provide good service and ensure your child is safe.
Trust Your Gut
If the food comes out and doesn’t seem right, don’t let your child eat it. Even so, it might be a good idea to carry your child’s anti-allergy medication with you. Children often get hungry and can’t wait until you have checked it out before they eat. There could be a possibility that there may be something in the food to which your child is allergic that can cause an allergic reaction. Fortunately, you can use the medication you carry to ease the reaction. Nowadays, you can also order medicines online for delivery within hours. For example, if you are in the UK, you can order medicines from any UK Pharmacy via their app and get them delivered in a matter of hours. While such options can be lifesavers, parents should be responsible for inspecting food before children eat it.In England, we were guaranteed that a specific raspberry sorbet was completely dairy and soy-free. When it arrived at our table, I was shocked to see how pink it was knowing that real raspberry sorbet is usually a dark red. I inquired with a manager before allowing Charlie to eat it. Once the manager double-checked the label, he found the sorbet contained cream. I avoided another hospital stay by simply trusting my instincts.
Also, look out for seafood allergies. Those can be hard to track and might get neglected. Many times, you can unknowingly order curry, etc., made in seafood, and it could cause a severe reaction. You can stay informed about a mercury testing service nearby that can detect such allergies quickly and provide you with the necessary medication.
Pack Alternative Snacks
No child wants to hear that they can’t enjoy a dessert they have been offered. Charlie usually takes it like a champ. Still, I like to surprise her sometimes with a safe snack she can end her meal with. My go-to snack are Surf Sweets candies. Surf Sweets are made and packaged in a facility free of the 10 most common food allergens, including dairy/casein, eggs, peanuts, tree nuts, wheat, soy, fish, shellfish, sesame, and sulfites. I pick them up at our local health food store. You can find a location to close to you here or simply order them online.
Use Allergy Eats
Traveling to new places can be confusing. Adding in food allergies can make it even more stressful. Before your trip download the Allergy Eats app available for iPhone and Android devices. The app is sort of like a Yelp for allergies. You can find allergy-friendly restaurants based on other users’ experiences, read menus and make reservations. I find it quite helpful when we are on the road and haven’t researched restaurants ahead of time.
Look for Allergy-Friendly Hotels
I have been quite surprised in our travels at how allergy-friendly hotels are. We have had plenty of luck at hotels like Great Wolf Lodge, Beaches Resorts, JW Marriott and Disney properties including the Four Seasons Orlando. Whether you are staying one night at a random hotel or booking a week-long all-inclusive, I find it’s best to call the hotel and alert them to your allergies before you book. They will often honor the online rate or even find you a better deal and the reservation will be marked with the allergy. I’ve also notice that alerting the hotel before our arrival tends to end in us receiving an impeccably clean room.
Once on-site, take time to meet with the chef and alert the staff at every restaurant you eat at. During our many stays at Great Wolf Lodge in Niagara Falls, we have been given complete tours of the buffet as well as have had custom fresh safe foods made for Charlie. At the Four Seasons Orlando, Charlie was treated to a 100% soy-free and dairy-free breakfast while still being able to participate in the breakfast with Mickey and his friends.
Carry Extra Medicine
No plan is foolproof. Always be prepared for a reaction to occur when you are on the road. Carry more medicine and injectors than you think you will need and know where the closest emergency room is as well as the emergency number which changes depending on the country you are visiting.